Making New Friends As An Adult - Why It's Harder But 100% Worth It!

Let’s be honest: making new friends in adulthood isn’t as easy as it was on the playground. Life gets full. Between work, family, responsibilities, and “I just want to stay in my PJs” nights, there’s not always time—or confidence—for building new connections.

But here’s the good news - you’re not the only one feeling this way. In fact, most adults quietly admit they’d love more meaningful connections... they just aren’t sure where to begin.

At Glasgow & Ayrshire Social Events, we’ve seen hundreds of people take that first brave step—coming along to a lunch, quiz night, book group or even a full-on weekend away. And do you know what they say afterwards?

“I wish I’d found this group sooner.”

Because the truth is, friendships don’t stop after 30 or 40 or 60. They just look different—and they start with a smile, a chat, and showing up.

So if you’re reading this wondering if it’s too late or too awkward to make new friends… it’s not. We're here. You’re invited.

Feeling a bit nervous about coming to your first event? Everyone does.   Most members tell us they worried they'd be the only newbie. But once you’re at the event, chatting with others and having a laugh the nerves will melt away. You're among friends—even if you haven’t met them yet.

You’re not looking for awkward icebreakers or cliquey vibes—you want chilled out, sociable and fun events. That’s exactly what we do - we bring together people of all ages and backgrounds who want to go to different events, meet new folk and enjoy life’s little moments—from meals out and comedy nights to theatre and cinema trips.

You don’t need to be a social butterfly—just open and friendly. When you're at an event you've instantly got something in common with everyone else - whether you’re at a wine tasting, watching a film or taking part in a pub quiz.

Everyone who joins us is looking for the same thing—a friendly face, a warm welcome, a fresh start. You don’t need to be anyone but yourself. That’s more than enough.

Our app makes it simple to browse events, book your place and keep in touch with people you’ve met. It’s a handy way to be part of the group—even between events.

With our free 3 months Basic Membership now’s the perfect time to try us out. Say yes to new friendships, laughs and a little more you time.

Who knows—the next person you meet might become a friend for life.