Why Should I Pay to be a Member when the Facebook Group was Free?

💬 “Why Pay to Socialise?”—And Why That’s the Wrong Question

Let’s be honest—we all love a freebie. And when it comes to socialising, there are free groups everywhere: Facebook groups, WhatsApp chats, Meet Up groups. But if you’ve ever turned up to an event only to find it chaotic, awkward or cancelled at the last minute, you already know the truth:

Free doesn’t always mean good

Our group isn’t about the occasional event or a chat online that goes nowhere. It’s real-life, well-organised social events that run like clockwork (most of the time!)

with plenty of laughs thrown in.

So, why pay to be part of our crew?

1. You’re investing in consistency.   No more tumbleweeds in the group chat. No more flaky RSVPs or wondering if an event’s still happening. Our calendar is packed and predictable—with something every week for every budget and interest.

2. You’re paying for planning (so you don’t have to).   Behind every event is someone making bookings, managing RSVP's, juggling cancellations and making it all feel effortless. That someone is me—and your paid membership makes it possible by paying towards the website fees.

3. You’re getting quality not chaos.   From our book groups to theatre trips, comedy nights, day trips or pub quizzes, every event is organised to run smoothly and be genuinely enjoyable. You won’t be stood in the rain wondering where everyone is. You'll always have my phone number. If I can't make it I'll organise another organiser where possible to step in.

4. You’re joining a community—not just an event.   This isn’t just about having a full diary. It’s about feeling included, welcomed and seen. Friendships that last longer than one night. In-jokes that come from shared experience. The kind of group chat that lifts your week.

5. You’re prioritising yourself.   Paying for membership is a statement: my social life matters. Not just for the laughs, but for your mental health, your confidence and the memories you’re making.

The free Facebook group is great for dipping a toe in—but if you’re ready for a social life with substance, structure, and something to look forward to every week - we’ve got you.

Because you deserve more than “might show up, might not.” You deserve a place where everyone’s already decided it’s worth showing up for.

 This is a well-organised, welcoming space that’s built on trust, effort and good vibes—not luck.

✅ Our Safety Matters, Real Connections   We take care in who joins and remains part of our group —not to be exclusive but to make sure it’s the right mix of people. Friendly, respectful, up for a laugh. No drama, no energy vampires. No spammers, no fake profiles. Our safety matters which is why the group is kept for members only. Nobody can see our events except for Site Members.

✅ Local Volunteer Organisers   You’re not joining a faceless business —you’re supporting wonderful people in our own group who care about making your experience great.

✅ Exclusive Events at Trusted Venues   We’ve built strong relationships with venues that love having us, which means priority bookings, smoother nights out, and often a little something extra.

✅ Perks That Pay for Themselves   Members enjoy discounts, money-off deals and event perks that more than cover the cost of joining.

✅ Respect For Your Time and Energy   People who flake, ghost or play silly games with RSVPs? Promptly managed. We’re here to have fun—not chase people around.

This is about quality. Reliability. Personal Safety. And feeling like you belong.

If that sounds like your kind of social life, you’ll fit right in.

Membership starts from as little as £1 per month

Your calendar's about to get a lot more exciting. ✨